Cremation is intended to be an alternative to entombment or
earth burial. Cremation allows you great flexibility in your choices of
merchandise and services and disposition of the remains.
Cremation with Traditional Funeral This allows the option of the
traditional funeral service or Mass of Christian Burial, with the cremation
following. A casket may be rented or purchased for viewing before or during
the service or Mass. This gives family and friends the opportunity view
the deceased during visitation and often helps them in their grieving process.
This service can be personalized in many ways by the family with the display
of photographs and memorabilia.
Cremation with Memorial Service A memorial service is held after the
cremation takes place. An urn is usually required if the cremains are to be
present at the service. Like the funeral service, the memorial service may be
designed to reflect the uniqueness of the deceased and wishes of the family.
Direct Cremation
Families may choose not to have any service. Therefore they may choose direct
cremation. A Funeral Director at your funeral home will complete all the
necessary paperwork for cremation and the cremains are returned to family
members.
Frequently Asked Questions
May the family
witness the Cremation?
Yes, Southhaven's facilities include a family gathering or witnessing
room. A family member may even start the cremation process itself.
Please notify your funeral home in advance for this option.
What if I prefer
cremation but other family members prefer interment? One solution to this situation is
to choose the cremation with traditional service and purchase a grave. This
would allow for the interring of the cremation urn or other container.
What type of Urn do I need?
A simple container will be provided by Southhaven, free of charge. However,
you may prefer an urn that reflects your personal tastes. Most funeral
homes have a selection of urns on display. A sample of available urns
may be viewed online at
Havenbrook Funeral
Home in Norman. Urns come in a variety of sizes, styles and
materials, including cast bronze, hardwoods, marble, granite or ceramic.
What may I do with the cremated
remains? Urn spaces are available at many cemeteries.
Columbarium Niches are also a popular choice. A niche is a recessed
compartment designed for the permanent placement of urns. A columbarium may be
located outdoors or inside chapels or mausoleums. Some families
choose to display the cremation urn at home or to scatter the cremains.
Your funeral director will explain all these option more fully.
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